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to make peace with it or make change with it... Whatever "it" is. 
How? You ask .... Both require conscious insight to guide intentional actions....
The ladder of Inference is a great tool to help awaken awareness, gain insight, and make real change.
Look at the ladder below to notice all of the unconscious layers influencing our ways of being without our permission! Now- think of a specific area of your life (personal or professional ) that you would like to change and filter it through each rung to notice the unconscious stories, assumptions and judgements that might be attached to your current way of being that need to be removed to make room for change or making authentic peace with it. Either way, you're the aware driver.
This 5 minute Ted-Ed video is a laugh out loud way to look at the Ladder of Inference in action
https://youtu.be/KJLqOclPqis
